I recently traveled to the East Coast of the USA to visit universities. I wanted to promote my school, explain directly in the Dean of Admission’s office why I believe our students are exceptional, and explain our programme, values, and ethos. But I also wanted to hear from them on what admitting students to selective institutions means in 2026.
During the week I visited Brown, Yale, Amherst College, MIT, Northeastern, Columbia and Boston University. At each visit I asked the Dean of Undergraduate Admissions (or in some cases the Associate Dean) the exact same three questions:
- What top three qualities do students who flourish at your university embody?
- If you could change something in the undergraduate admissions process, what would it be?
- What advice would you give to a student applying to your university?
The answers I received to these questions were rich. This article will go into them so as to draw a picture in response to the overarching question, what are top universities looking for in undergraduate candidates?
Their Answers to My Questions
First, here, in shorthand, are the answers to the questions I received from the Deans or Associate Deans of the seven institutions (without saying who is who):
What top three qualities do students who flourish at your university embody?
| Resilience; Self advocacy; Curiosity |
| Academically prepared; Curious and ambitious; Internationally minded |
| Curiosity; Initiative; Community mindedness |
| Ability and willingness to collaborate; Intellectual curiosity: focussed architects of their own education; Positive and joyful members of our community |
| Intellectual curiosity; Risk taking outside of the classroom; Being comfortable with discomfort |
| Interest in expanding intellectual horizons; Able to thrive in a residential community; Call to service, leadership, service to others |
| Intellectually curious; Leaders; Kind |
If you could change something in the undergraduate admissions process, what would it be?
| Grade inflation in High School Diplomas and APs |
| Grade inflation in High School Diplomas, reducing the volume of applications |
| Grade inflation, difficulty determining the predictive value of admissions data |
| Balancing the length and complexity of admissions with specificity, being able to give more financial aid |
| Finding a better way of identifying the right student |
| Early admissions (too rushed) and making financial aid clearer to applicants |
| The process should be simpler |
What advice would you give to a student applying to your university?
| Connect the dots across a variety of fields, expose yourself to multiple fields, lean in to failure, discomfort and productive struggle |
| Find your passions in and out of the classroom, develop your soft skills and human engagement |
| Don’t do things because they make you look good, pursue what you enjoy with as much enthusiasm as you can |
| Don’t try to focus too soon, be open to changing your mind. Start with research and discover what’s out there. |
| Think carefully about who writes your letters of recommendation, think of people who really know you and can valorise you |
| Visit the institution and sense the energy, engage in the humanities and arts: seek strength in breadth |
| Know why you are aiming for this college in particular, be specific and authentic in your search |
Frameworks Drawn from the Interviews
Synthesizing the overlapping points from the answers to question one (about the flourishing student), reveals 7 core pillars defining character, intellect, and leadership.
Profile of the Flourishing Graduate
1. Intellectual curiosity
A flourishing graduate doesn’t learn for grades or compliance; they possess an internal drive to explore the unknown. They take ownership of their learning, construct their own academic paths, and actively seek out ideas beyond their comfort zones.
2. Resilience
They view failure, ambiguity, and difficulty as natural components of growth. By stepping into unfamiliar environments and taking calculated social, personal, or intellectual risks, they develop the emotional grit needed to bounce back from setbacks.
3. Self-advocacy
Instead of waiting for opportunities to be handed to them, flourishing graduates take proactive steps to solve problems and locate resources. They know how to speak up for their needs, express their goals, and translate motivation into tangible action.
4. Interpersonal strength
Success is rarely a solo endeavor. A flourishing graduate works effectively across diverse viewpoints, brings warmth and enthusiasm to collective efforts, and practices everyday empathy and kindness in group dynamics.
5. Community connection
They recognize that their talents are best used in service to a larger purpose. They navigate communal living and shared spaces with independence, emotional balance, and respect for others. They contribute constructively to a vibrant campus and, later, civic environment.
6. Academic preparation
They possess a strong foundational toolkit: critical thinking, analytical writing, problem-solving, and domain mastery, that allows them to tackle complex, high-level challenges with confidence and rigour.
7. Intercultural fluency
A flourishing graduate understands their role within an interconnected world. They approach cultural differences with empathy and open-mindedness, navigating global contexts and complex international issues with a nuanced perspective.
Changing Admissions
Synthesizing the answers to this question into two core statements reveals the following:
Restore Clear Academic Signals: Standardized credentials (grades and APs) have been rendered ambiguous by widespread grade inflation, making it critical to establish clearer, objective measures of academic readiness and predictive potential.
Simplify and Demystify Access: The current process is overly complex and rushed, especially around early decision timelines, and must be streamlined so families can easily navigate applications and understand their true net financial aid early on.
I encourage schools like those that are part of the coalition to honour all learning to continue to explore how we can reform high school assessment protocols and work directly with universities to find the clearest and fairest path forward.
Advice to Students Applying: 3 lessons
This is less simple to synthesize because each university or college was describing elements proper to their ethos. In fact, one of the core takeaways from this particular question was the need to tailor searches and seek institutions in an authentic way. The culture of blanket applications and copy-pasting letters means that several letters and applications lack the purpose that can only come from really wanting to be admitted specifically to one university.
Nonetheless, the following synthesis of the answers helps identify core underlying issues:
1. Embrace depth through unforced breadth
Don’t rush to narrow your focus or assemble a resume designed merely to “look good.” Instead, pursue what genuinely excites you across multiple disciplines, including the humanities, arts, and sciences. Expose yourself to diverse fields, connect ideas across different subjects, and lean into productive struggle, discomfort, and failure as essential tools for intellectual growth.
2. Cultivate authentic relationships and human engagement
Develop your soft skills, interpersonal awareness, and passions both inside and outside the classroom. When selecting recommenders, choose individuals who truly know your character and work ethic, people who can authentically champion your specific strengths rather than simply listing your accomplishments.
3. Anchor your search in specificity and the right fit
Approach your college search with open-minded curiosity. Experience campus energy firsthand where possible, research what makes each institution unique, and articulate with precision and authenticity exactly why a specific university aligns with your intellectual goals and personal values.
Conclusion
I left the seven colleges with the feeling one always does after visiting a university, a mixture of hope, excitement, light-footedness but at the same time, and paradoxically, the weight of a society and now globalised culture that places too much emphasis on too narrow a path.
The people I met are passionate about their mission and truly want to give access to these extraordinary places of learning to candidates who will thrive in them, who will flourish. On the other side of the admissions processes, are millions of young minds wondering where to go and why.
This brings us back to an existential reflection: forget about what other people think or what the bandwagon carries: aim for something that truly aligns with who you are and who you want to be.
Note: the syntheses were done by AI but proofed and edited by me











