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How can AI make teachers more human in the classroom?

Everywhere I go lately, there’s a whisper in the background of education: Will AI replace teachers?

I hear it in staff rooms, at conferences, and even in conversations with parents. It’s a question that holds both fear and fascination. But each time, I find myself coming back to a different angle. Because maybe the real question isn’t about replacement at all. Maybe it’s about rebalancing.

What if AI could actually make teachers more human in the classroom?


Why did we choose to become educators?

Most of us didn’t step into teaching because we dreamed of filling out spreadsheets or marking papers at midnight. We entered education because we believe in people—because we know that learning is built on relationships.

It’s in the quiet moment when a student finally feels safe enough to speak. It’s in the spark in their eyes when something “clicks.” It’s in the laughter, the stories, and the trust we build day after day.

Those are the things that stay with students years after they’ve forgotten the details of a math formula or a history date. Those are the things no algorithm can replicate.

And yet, too often, teachers are buried under the noise of the job: the marking pile that never shrinks, the lesson prep that eats up weekends, the data entry that stretches long into the night. All of that steals away the time and energy we want to pour into the human side of teaching.


Where does AI fit ?

Some see AI as a threat, others as the future. The truth may be less about either/or and more about how we align its strengths with what matters most in education.

AI is powerful—it can draft lesson scaffolds, generate feedback at scale, analyze patterns in student data that we might otherwise miss, and even bridge language barriers in multicultural classrooms. In the right hands, it can open possibilities that were once unimaginable.

But here’s the key: AI is at its best not when it replaces teachers, but when it amplifies them. It can clear the clutter so that the teacher’s most important work—relationships, presence, empathy—comes through louder than ever.


What shifts do we need to make?

This is the real shift we need to embrace in education: moving from the fear of replacement to the power of rebalancing.

When we stop asking “Will AI replace us?” and start asking “How can AI give us back time to be fully human?” we change the whole conversation.

If schools integrate AI thoughtfully, we could reclaim something we’ve been losing for years in education: meaningful time. Not just time shaved off our workload, but time that lets us pause, notice, and connect. Time to lean into the conversations that help students feel seen. Time to mentor, to listen, to bring the holistic dimensions of growth—cultural, academic, physical, emotional, social—back to the center of what we do.


Four ways to start that shift

  1. Automate the routine: Use AI for what it does best: the repetitive and the time-consuming. Scheduling, drafting rubrics, generating baseline lesson resources. It’s not about perfection—it’s about removing the drain.
  2. Protect the relational: Make an intentional choice to invest the time saved into relationships. That might mean slowing down for a conversation, designing deeper discussions, or checking in with a student who’s been quiet.
  3. Reframe professional growth: When training staff on AI, pair every technical skill with a human one. For example: show how AI can generate a draft lesson, then ask, “How will you use the time saved to spark deeper inquiry or connect with students more personally?”; Add reflection prompts in evaluations like: “How did AI reduce your workload this term, and how did you reinvest that time into relationships or student growth?”; Leaders can model this shift by sharing how they themselves use AI for admin, then spend the reclaimed time in coaching or mentoring. These subtle moves remind teachers—and systems—that AI is not the goal. The human connection is.
  4. Lead with clarity: Schools should be explicit about where AI belongs and where it doesn’t. Clarity reassures staff, parents, and students that the goal isn’t replacement, but balance.

At its best, AI won’t make classrooms less human—it will make them more human. But that depends on how we choose to use it. The real challenge for us, as educators and leaders, is to decide: Will we let AI crowd our work with more efficiency, or will we use it as an opening to reclaim what matters most—our presence, our empathy, our relationships?

Because in the end, the most powerful learning still happens in the space between people. So I leave you with this: where in your teaching or leadership could AI return the gift of time—for you to be more present, more human?

Bake a Difference

Cosmic Cookie Class Recipe:

2 ½ cups community creation

3 teaspoons all purpose empathy into action

2 sticks of “story” 

12 ounces choice

Directions: Preheat classroom with reflection and intentionality. In a large mixing bowl, add community creation.  Combine empathy and action into community creation.  Beat sticks of “story” in medium mixer bowl until creamy.  Gradually combine creamy mixture with community creation and empathy into action mixture. Stir in choice.  Drop by rounded tablespoon onto untreated learning pan. Bake for 9 months or until golden brown. 

“Have you tried Mimmie’s Bakery? They have the most incredible Cosmic cookie!”  My octogenarian neighbor recently reminded me of a child, as she hailed my attention while I rushed out the door the other morning. There was something heartwarming about an older person getting so animated about something many would consider so simple, a cookie.  Her excitement was contagious and stirred in me a bit of curiosity. 

What made Mimmie’s cookie recipe so different? 

As the day went on, I seemingly couldn’t get the Cosmic cookie off or out of my mind.  Instead of heading down to the bakery, I considered how I might transfer this idea of a perfect cookie recipe to what I care most about, teaching and learning.  Could I “bake” something similar in my classroom?

Teaching very well can be just a generic chocolate chip cookie but in reality, it is so much more.  And it has the potential to get people excited. In the case of children, “keep” them excited.  I often remind myself, a big part of keeping students love for learning ignited, is simply not getting in their way.  I think about how knowledge is cheap and with the web we are saturated in information 24/7.  It is what we do with learning that matters most.  After two dozen years “baking”in the classroom, I definitely have learned many lessons.  However, an end-of-year student survey allowed for a sort of distillation or surfacing of a “recipe” for my own Cosmic cookie.  

When eating healthy, nutritionists often say to choose those foods with the least amount of ingredients.  I’ve boiled my recipe down to but four “ingredients.”  It would be foolhardy to think I have perfected the recipe, though there are definitely ingredients and/or steps which I feel much more confident about.  Yet, perfection?  Even those cookies at Mimmie’s surely are a work in progress. 

Summer is a time of much needed rest for educators, but I trust is also a chance for reflection. So much news in education this past year was about the abandonment of  the noble profession. With a little distance this summer, I remain hopeful that many educators might remember back to why they chose (or were chosen!) to be an educator. And I hope there is a sense of rejuvenation and excitement.  Moreover, if the “Cosmic Cookie Class” recipe is helpful to even a single educator, I will feel a sense of satisfaction.  

Cosmic Cookie Class Breakdown

  1. Community creation: Community does not just happen.  Intentionality is of extreme importance. The critical skill of learning how to listen but also how to give and receive feedback are at the heart of functioning communities.  A “we do this together” sort of ethos exists. Routines definitely help.  Ideas for implementation include: 

*Philosophical chairs

*Class discussion and occasional  fish bowl strategy

*Feedback loops changed up and in a variety of formats: 

~Teacher to student

~Student to student

~Student to teacher (such a gift!)

~Parents (digital notebooks) and segments of conversations recorded with Mote

~Administration invited in at the start and during the process, not just in culmination

~Community (something I especially wish to improve)

  1. Empathy but also action:  This begins with awareness.  Several students commented how social studies class “was about becoming  more aware of what is happening around our world.”  Others suggested, “It is about joy, curiousity, and being inspired to create a positive impact that would affect people’s lives for the better.” And, one of my favorite pieces of feedback was how “the class is more a study of life, all subjects combined. Where we find solutions to problems in the world.”  Three ideas for beginning to transition from empathy into action include:  

~Start small and add a Virtual Reality experience or simulation

~Read aloud (a book well read and discussed is appealing to learners of all ages)

~Newsela articles citing students as examples of how youth  are making a difference

*Bonus: Partner with experts in the field and they may even broaden your audience for students (eg: Inspired Citizens)

  1. Integrate the power of story:  “Story, as it turns out, was crucial to our evolution — more so than opposable thumbs. Opposable thumbs let us hang on; story told us what to hang on to” (Lisa Cron). Be okay with being vulnerable as you become “known” to students.  Someone who students can connect with.  Sharing anecdotes can add not only “reality” to the classroom but also comfort. The intentional integration of stories, like the time I tacked a horse for a teen my age who had cerebral palsy.  How I was gifted an opportunity to learn gratitude and grace from such an experience. A story like this not only connects with the equestrian lover in the classroom but anyone who might have a beating heart, if the story is one students can re-live with you as you tell it.  Skills learned this past year from a migration project based on story-telling included:

~Slowing down and really practicing what it means to attentively listen.  This can be difficult as habits need to be broken for students and adults alike.  The digital age has sped us up in numerable ways

~As learners listen, challenge them to discern where a deeper “story” might yearn to surface.  Imagine it breaching as a 150- ton whale!

~Developing questions and being prepared to interview but also to design questions on the fly

~Creatively “tell” stories through a variety of mediums (eg. video, stop animation, and podcast)

  1. Provide student choice:  Choice boards can be helpful so there isn’t paralysis amidst a paradox of choices. Further, in an effort to help with scaffolding, suggested tech platforms, as well as process steps are offered as options to follow. The emphasis is always on process yet with sufficient time built in (a calendar proposed), along with feedback, a quality final product is ensured.  Building in a sort of celebration and/or “real” audience helps up the ante and leads to more student ownership and pride of their learning. On my final survey, several students commented with regards to choice.  One student shared, “I love how we get to express our creativity in our learning.”

Power to Make a Difference

It was Maya Angelou who said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”  What matters most in our classroom is this.  How students feel. The four “ingredients” above contain tremendous power. Power to be rememembered? Yes.  But more importantly, the power to make a difference.  

Thank you for reading and for continuing to reflect and learn.

Enjoy the summer and happy “baking”!

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