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Why Is Your K-12 Learning Community Tech Rich But Systems Poor?

You Can’t Name It? You Can’t Tame It.

Schools invest millions in learning management systems, collaboration platforms, and digital tools, yet many teachers avoid technology, IT departments still field the same support tickets, and administrators struggle to measure real impact. The problem is that we’re trying to solve 21st-century collaboration challenges with 20th-century change management approaches.

Walk into most schools and you’ll find the digital equivalent of archaeological layers. Managebac sits on top of Google Classroom, which overlays the legacy SIS, all while teachers maintain their own spreadsheets because the systems don’t talk to each other in ways that actually serve their work.

We implement technology as if schools were machines where you can swap out parts, rather than complex adaptive systems where every change ripples through relationships, workflows, and cultures.

Why Traditional Change Management Fails

Schools are collaborative ecosystems. Teachers need to coordinate across departments, IT needs to balance security with usability, and administrators need to support innovation while maintaining compliance—all simultaneously. Each group operates from their own expertise and constraints, often unaware of how their work impacts others.

Traditional approaches assume you can plan change, implement it, and then maintain it. But collaborative work is emergent. The best solutions arise from the intersection of different perspectives, and you can’t mandate perspective-sharing any more than you can mandate creativity.

When we try to force collaborative systems into hierarchical change processes, we get what systems theorist Peter Senge calls “complexity catastrophe”—the harder we push for change, the more the system pushes back, and we get what we see today:

Kabuki Integration: Adopting some of the performative language of innovation while core structures & workflows remain unchanged.

Weak matrix paralysis: People who understand the work (teachers/integrationists) do not direct it, and those who direct it (administrators, IT departments) do not understand it.

Solution proliferation: The tendency to adopt a new tool for every new problem, creating a disconnected digital environment.

The Missing Piece: Transparency for Alignment

School systems don’t need more management; they need more transparency. When stakeholders can see how their work connects to others’ work, when they understand the constraints each group faces, and when they have shared language for navigating complexity together, alignment emerges naturally.

This isn’t about consensus—it’s about clarity. It’s about creating conditions where:

  • Instructional technologists can design with teachers’ actual workflows in mind
  • IT can anticipate needs rather than just respond to crises
  • Teachers can adapt tools to serve learning rather than just comply with initiatives
  • Administrators can measure what matters rather than what’s easy to count

What’s needed is a framework that honors the collaborative nature of educational work while providing concrete steps for navigating the messy, non-linear process of sustainable change. Not another top-down initiative, but a way of working that grows from the ground up through transparency, shared understanding, and aligned action.

This is where the EdTech Synergist Protocol begins. What actually happens when smart, committed people have the language and tools for thought to collaborate effectively across the community?

I spent 15 years battling across this dysfunctional gap and built the tools bridge it. The free, open source project will drop just in time for Christmas.

Safeguarding Voice: Who Gets Heard, and Who Gets Silenced?

I’ve been thinking a lot about this third and last piece in my safeguarding series — what to bring into the light, what to hold space for, and what has become so normalized that it deserves attention. And the more I sat with it, the more I realized that this next part of the safeguarding conversation is not about students directly. It’s about the adults who protect the students — and what happens when their safety is quietly eroded.

One uncomfortable truth is that we cannot safeguard children if we don’t safeguard the adults responsible for them. And yet, across countless professional conversations, accreditation visits, coaching sessions, and quiet after-meeting walk-and-talks, I keep hearing versions of the same thing:

  • “I didn’t feel safe speaking in that meeting.”
  • “My idea only landed after someone else repeated it.”
  • “I don’t want to challenge him — it always becomes personal.”
  • “People like me aren’t listened to here.”
  • “I don’t want to be seen as the difficult one.”

These are not isolated stories. These are patterns that form culture. And culture, more than any policy or protocol, is where safeguarding either strengthens or breaks.


Voice as a Safeguarding Issue

Psychological safety is not a leadership trend — it is one of the conditions of successful safeguarding. Research from Amy Edmondson (Harvard Business School) shows that teams with low psychological safety underreport concerns, stay silent in the face of potential harm, and rarely challenge power dynamics — even when something feels wrong.

In schools, that silence is not abstract. It lands directly at the feet of our students. When adults don’t feel safe to speak truth, children have no one left to speak for them. And this is where voice becomes more than a wellbeing issue and becomes a safeguarding responsibility.


Power in spaces can create an imbalance.

Unconscious bias is not malicious — but it is powerful. In school leadership spaces, certain voices are at times unintentionally elevated:

  • the confident, fluent speaker
  • the senior leader
  • the person with historical credibility
  • the charismatic personality
  • the culturally dominant group or gender
  • the one who takes up space easily

And just as quietly, other voices shrink:

  • new teachers
  • International or local hires
  • minority staff
  • reflective, quieter thinkers
  • women whose tone is judged before their ideas
  • people with less political capital

No one announces this imbalance. It simply becomes the room. And when a room is imbalanced, safeguarding is imbalanced.  Safeguarding depends on the voices most willing to notice, question, and disrupt harm — not just the ones who speak the loudest.


What is the cost of unsafe leadership spaces?

People don’t leave schools because of workload. They leave because of what happens in rooms where decisions are made. The latest reports from ISC Research (2022) and Education Support UK (2023) note that:

  • lack of voice and psychological safety is one of the top 3 reasons teachers resign,
  • minority staff report double the levels of “dismissal of concerns,”
  • women in leadership experience more frequent interruption, contradiction, and tone-policing,
  • schools with low psychological safety have significantly higher rates of safeguarding near-misses — because concerns stay unspoken.

These aren’t abstract statistics. They explain something we’ve all seen before: when adults do not feel safe, they stop challenging. They stop reporting, noticing, or caring out loud. And a school where people stop caring out loud is a school where safeguarding is already compromised.


When “Harmless” Behaviours Become Harmful

Culture doesn’t break in dramatic moments. It breaks in subtle ones.

  • A sexist joke passed off as humour.
  • A colleague dismissed mid-sentence.
  • A leader’s idea always chosen first.
  • A microaggression reframed as “not a big deal.”
  • A person’s concern minimised as oversensitivity.
  • A boundary pushed “just this once.”

Individually, these moments feel small but collectively, they form a climate where harm can grow quietly. Safeguarding literature calls this the continuum of harm: micro-behaviours → normalisation → silence → risk. This is why safeguarding must extend beyond child protection training. It must sit in the DNA of how adults treat one another.


So what can you do when speaking up feels unsafe in your community?

1. Trust your discomfort. It’s professional evidence. Your instincts are shaped by experience, pattern recognition, and emotional labor. If something feels off, it’s worth noting. Write it down. Keep it factual. Collect clarity, not “evidence.” Silence thrives where intuition is dismissed.

2. Use policy as protection — not confrontation. Policies exist to protect both children and adults. You can ground your concerns in neutral, non-personal language such as:

  • “Our safeguarding code of conduct notes that…”
  • “KCSIE highlights our duty to…”
  • “The whistleblowing policy protects staff when…”

Policy removes emotion and hierarchy. It makes the conversation about safeguarding, and not personalities.

3. Don’t go alone — use the processes and key people available in your school. When a culture is resistant, use structure. A collective voice has protection that an isolated one doesn’t. Here are some key people that you can approach: DSL, Deputy DSL, Line manager, HR, Whistleblowing channel, or Safeguarding governor

4. Focus on impact, not intention. This defuses defensiveness and keeps the conversation about safety. Impact shifts the conversation from accusation to understanding to action. 

  • “I know the intention wasn’t harm, but the impact was…”
  • “This landed differently to the way it was meant.”

5. Leaders: repair culture in the smallest moments. Culture doesn’t shift in big speeches. It shifts in micro-courageous actions like: 

  • Interrupt the biased joke.
  • Invite the quiet colleague to speak.
  • Name the dynamic you observe: “I think we just talked over her.”
  • Publicly credit people’s ideas.
  • Protect the person who raised a concern.
  • Model humility, not dominance.
  • Ask, “Whose voice haven’t we heard yet?”

Safeguarding begins long before crisis. It begins in the spaces where adults gather, decide, and lead. And if we want safer schools, we must commit to safeguarding voice — every voice — with the same vigilance we promise our students.

Safety is not built by power but by consistency. In the end… safeguarding is not only about children. It is about protecting the adults who protect the children. It is about creating rooms where voice is safe, not only strategic. It is about building cultures where courage is shared, not punished. And above all — it is about choosing the kind of leadership that makes safety visible, dignity possible, and silence no longer the easiest option.

So as you look around your own school, ask yourself one final question: Whose voice is truly safe here — and whose isn’t?

The Hidden Risk in Every Interview Room and How to Stop It

Safeguarding Series #2: This article is the second in my ongoing Safeguarding in Recruitment series—written for anyone navigating the critical decisions of hiring season. In Part 1, I explored how safeguarding must be the heart of the reference check—not the afterthought. In this follow-up, I dive deeper into the quiet risks we often miss during recruitment conversations—and how shifting our approach can build safer school cultures from the start.


Most interviews start with: “Tell us about your teaching philosophy.”

Maybe they should start with: “Tell us about a time you made a student feel safe.”

The truth is, you can have every certificate laminated, every reference polished, every acronym memorized — and still not be someone a school would trust around a child, a teenager, a colleague.

We don’t talk about this enough: competence doesn’t equal character.

And yet, many schools hire mainly for competence all the time.

The Illusion of “Safe” Hiring

We love systems that make us feel safe — background checks, reference calls, forms that promise transparency. But safety isn’t paperwork. It’s people work.

Safeguarding isn’t a document you sign once a year; it’s a daily decision to do the harder thing: to pause before you react, to challenge a colleague, to admit you were wrong.

And that’s what interviews should reveal.

Not just what a person knows, but what they will do when no one is watching.

According to NSPCC Learning (2024), 47% of safeguarding failures in UK schools over the past decade were linked not to missing procedures, but to staff attitudes, culture, or failures to act on instinct. In short — schools didn’t hire the right people for the culture of vigilance they needed.

Character Isn’t Found in a CV

CVs tell you what candidates want you to know — results, roles, titles. They don’t tell you how those results were achieved or what values guided them.

Character hides in the small things:

  • The way someone speaks about a “difficult” student.
  • Whether they use we or I when describing success.
  • How they talk about colleagues they’ve disagreed with.

Integrity leaks through language. So does ego. So does entitlement.

Listen for the small power cues — the ones that reveal whether a candidate sees children as partners in learning or problems to control; whether they speak with respect or about behaviour.

The Questions That Matter

It’s been years as a senior leader when I stopped asking: “What’s your classroom management style?”

Now I ask:

  • “How do you repair trust after a mistake?”
  • “Tell me about a time you had to call out a colleague’s behaviour — how did you handle it?”
  • “When have you witnessed bias or exclusion, and what did you do?”
  • “How do you respond when a parent challenges your authority or makes you uncomfortable?”
  • “How do you ensure every student — regardless of gender, background, or ability — feels equally seen and respected?”
  • “What kind of humour belongs in a classroom, and what doesn’t?”
  • “How do you model boundaries with students on social media or in public spaces?”

These aren’t trick questions. They reveal reflexes, empathy, and blind spots.

You’ll see it instantly: Some candidates pause and think deeply — humility lives in that pause. Others get defensive — ego lives there too.

You can train skill but you can’t fake compassion. You definitely can’t perform respect for long.

Screening for Toxic Patterns

As safeguarding leaders, we must go beyond detecting risk to children and start detecting risk to culture.

There are red flags that deserve naming:

  • Misogynistic or gender-coded language (“the girls are more dramatic,” “the boys just need firm discipline”).
  • Toxic masculinity disguised as “banter” or “relatability.”
  • Blame-shifting when discussing conflict with colleagues (“I’m just straightforward — some people can’t handle that”).
  • Subtle victim-blaming when describing past safeguarding incidents.
  • Lack of curiosity about diversity or inclusion.

These are not personality quirks. They are early indicators of boundary failure, bias, or coercive dynamics. And schools that overlook them often pay the price later — in grievance meetings, parental complaints, or damaged student trust.

When Politeness Becomes a Mask

Not all safeguarding risks look like aggression. Some come disguised as professionalism.

There’s a particular kind of candidate — calm, articulate, “respectful” — who uses courtesy as camouflage. They speak softly, but hold power tightly. They talk about standards when they really mean control. They demand “respect” when what they want is compliance. It’s self-righteousness masked as morality, and it’s harder to spot than overt misconduct.

You’ll hear it in the phrases:

  • “I’m very principled — I just expect others to meet that.”
  • “I tell it like it is — people sometimes find that intimidating.”
  • “Students need to learn respect first.”

What sounds like confidence can, in reality, be covert narcissism — the kind that erodes trust under the banner of “high expectations.”

In safeguarding, this is dangerous because it silences others. Staff hesitate to challenge. Students hesitate to speak. The culture bends around ego instead of care.

During interviews, listen for:

  • A moralising tone — “should,” “always,” “never.”
  • Defensiveness when discussing feedback or disagreement.
  • Politeness that feels performative — control disguised as calm.
  • Lack of curiosity or self-questioning (“I’ve never had issues with boundaries.”)

These traits rarely show up on safeguarding checklists, but they can quietly corrode a culture of safety. Respect that demands silence isn’t respect — it’s domination dressed up as virtue.

A Practical Toolbox for Interview Panels

If you’re leading or sitting on a safer recruitment panel, use this DSL-aligned checklist to anchor the conversation:

Focus AreaWhat to Listen ForRed Flags
Attitude to PowerSpeaks about safeguarding as shared responsibility; values accountability.Deflects responsibility; uses hierarchical language (“that’s SLT’s job”).
Gender & RespectUses inclusive language; avoids stereotypes; names bias when seen.Jokes, generalizations, or discomfort discussing gender or harassment.
Boundaries & RelationshipsDescribes warmth with professionalism; distinguishes care from familiarity.Over-emphasis on “being friends” with students; blurred boundaries.
Conflict ResponseMentions listening, reflection, repair.Blames others; views disagreement as threat.
Emotional RegulationOwns mistakes; names stress responses.Minimizes pressure or emotional triggers (“I never lose my cool”).
Cultural HumilityShows curiosity about local norms and diversity.Talks about “fitting students to my way.”

Culture Fit vs Culture Alignment

Too many schools hire people who “fit.” Fit keeps things comfortable. Alignment keeps things honest.

When we say, “They’ll fit right in,” what we often mean is, “They won’t make us uncomfortable or feel awkward.” But safeguarding thrives on discomfort — on colleagues who ask, “Are we sure this is okay?”

The best safeguarding cultures are built by people who can challenge without arrogance and care without agenda.

The adults we hire don’t just teach subjects. They teach norms. They model what power used responsibly looks like. They teach young people what respect looks and sounds like. They teach what it feels like to be listened to.

When we hire for compliance, we get professionals who follow the handbook. When we hire for character, we get people who live it — especially when it’s inconvenient.

The Real Question

When you sit across from a candidate, ask yourself: Would I trust this person to stand up to a colleague making an inappropriate joke? Would I trust them to protect a student whose voice shakes in silence?

If the answer isn’t an immediate yes — it’s a no. Safeguarding doesn’t start when something goes wrong. It starts right there, in that chair — with the courage to choose people who make safety visible and dignity non-negotiable.

Safeguarding isn’t about credentials; it’s about character. It lives in the questions we ask, the biases we challenge, and the courage we show when it’s uncomfortable. In the end, safer schools aren’t built by policy—they’re built by people who choose integrity over ease.

Educational Lessons from the Getty Villa

The oil merchant tycoon J. Paul Getty was an avid art collector and took his passion to extraordinary heights with the building of the Getty Villa. Off the Malibu coast in the dry Californian hills, he commissioned the building of a palace modelled on that of a Roman patrician’s palace in Herculaneum. Not only is the building a sublime replica of a Roman villa, it contains a wonderful collection of Greek and Roman statues which Getty purchased, mainly in the South of Italy, with passionate attention to detail.

There’s much to be said about museums, and not all of it is positive, since they are an ideologically and philosophically problematic assertion of decontextualised and frequently stolen works crowded in a slightly ersatz setting. I’ve often felt, wandering through the Louvre or the Prado, mild symptoms of the so-called Stendhal syndrome, a type of dizziness created by the sheer concentration of art. In fact, after an hour or two, no one can seriously take in yet more art, especially when it is crammed in such an industrial, exhibitory fashion. This is why it’s often more pleasant to view a single work, or a few, in their original setting, like Caravaggio’s paintings in the churches of Rome or the magnificent Colossi of Memnon in Luxor. In any case, I take little pleasure in viewing obelisks in the middle of Paris, Rome or London and even less the Elgin marbles packed in a type of curio shop of Graeco-Egyptian relics in the British museum only to find the frieze of the Acropolis’ Parthenon in Athens bare!

The comparison with education is simple: too often our curricula are jam-packed with items of decontextualised knowledge, sequenced in such a manner that the experience of incorporating all that information is neither ergonomic nor particularly enjoyable. It’s a kind of conveyor belt of transmission, forcing learning disparate “units” in a concentrated setting, ending with the fairly brutal episode of very high-stakes and narrow assessments which are equally compressed. Getty’s Villa, on the other hand, contains two extremely powerful lessons on the curation of art and, by analogy, the creation of curriculum design.

First, the aestheticism. Between the tall cypress and carefully planted pomegranate trees, the wistful stone pines, bronze statues in hedged gardens, marble-floored peristyles, fountains and gorgeous views of the Pacific Ocean, some of the most sumptuous sculptures, urns, and mosaics have been assembled at the Villa. One can stroll in and out of the spaces, from an exhibition hall to an outdoor cloister to a reconstructed temple at the end of a breezy vista. The whole experience has been crafted meticulously and lovingly, meaning that there is a harmony and construction in the viewing. This is how curriculum should be organised, as a story, with powerful concepts that cohere with one another, as an aesthetic experience that takes the learner on an unforgettable journey. In my philosophy classes I always teach the ancient Greeks within the overriding concept of the “Arche” – the fundamental stuff of the universe, and African thought systems such as Ubuntu and the Yoruba cosmology within the conceptual framework of ancestry and spirit, to make the learning flow like a narrative, to give the students some pleasure and interest in the story rather than the lesson. This is also why I’ve always been in favour of giving the history of the subject and some intriguing anecdotes about the people involved in whatever we teach. It’s pretty boring to simply hammer out science, mathematics, the arts and the humanities without some of the fascinating details of the lives and passionate stories behind the findings.

Instead, too often curriculum design treats learning it as a type of incoherent and strictly utilitarian assembly of subjects timetabled incongruously next to one other like an ugly city with buildings from different times dumped jarringly side by side with no urban planning, no rhyme or reason. This is why units of inquiry (although I’m not in love with the term “unit”) and transdisciplinary or interdisciplinary learning experiences are preferable to mere topic coverage: there is an architecture, a structure. It is the svelteness and elegance of cogency that makes the Getty Villa so much more than a simple museum and almost forces anyone strolling through it to slow down and appreciate everything around them as a whole.

Second, the fact that the villa is a reconstruction, carrying with it, of course, the hubris and potential kitsch that such an ambition announces, is nonetheless something that plunges you into the past wholly and remarkably, as if you were living as a Roman during the Roman period itself. Everything has been lavishly restored, the colours are vivid and alive. It is nothing of the grey and broken atmosphere of a ruin or the funereal, high-ceilinged abstractness of a museum for the sake of a museum. You feel transported to the South of Italy and at least 2000 years back in time. Likewise, curriculum should be contextualised in such a way that the imagination is plunged into its world. It should be relevant and vivacious to the learner just as standing on the beach means that you feel the salt of the sea on your face. It is the power and the imagination of the teacher who can do this, by evoking the universe of the subject and not just the content matter, by bringing the curriculum to life.

Whenever I speak at an assembly for students (and by the way, assemblies are part of the curriculum, please make sure they are not boring), there will be a story, and I always make sure that the story is framed in a setting with atmosphere, details, smells and textures, so that it does not come across as inert and dry information but rather as a psychic experience. This helps students connect with the information and remember it. Too often we rush from one lesson to another and “there is not enough time” to discuss the history of the subject because we have to “get through” what’s on the test. And yet, without the storytelling and the musical pacing, without the ability to slow down and unpack the wonderful anecdotes and intrigues within the history of the subject, without the necessary time etched out to focus and bring out some of the character of the subject matter, the enterprise can be fairly stagnant and uninspiring to the imagination. So very often, we need to stimulate the imagination for deep learning to occur.

The Getty Villa is a true gem and reminds all of us in education of the importance of beauty, and context; that curriculum is not an exercise on paper but a living, active phenomenon that, if assembled the right way, can have a deep and transformational effect on the mind and spirit.

Hiring Is the First Act of Safeguarding

Safeguarding Series #1: A Perspective on Safer Recruitment in International Schools from My Role as a DSL

When people ask me about safeguarding, they often expect to hear about policies, disclosures, or risk assessments.

As a Designated Safeguarding Lead (DSL), I’ve come to understand that safeguarding doesn’t begin with a form. It begins with a person. And often, that person is not a student. It’s an adult we’ve just hired.

Safer Hiring is serious business.

And yet, many of us know—quietly, sometimes reluctantly—that these measures alone are not enough. Not in international schools. Not in a world where teachers move countries every few years, where systems vary, and where reputation can hide risk.

Let’s name the quiet truths:

  • References can be vague or overly polished.
  • Background checks may only tell us who was caught—not who caused harm and moved on.
  • Some candidates smooth over CV gaps with charm or vague reasoning.
  • In our global school network, we often mistake the absence of a red flag for a sign of safety

We assume that familiarity equals integrity. That silence equals clearance. That good schools only hire good people.

There are moments I pause and quietly ask myself: what if?

I remember the references that made me pause—but came from schools too prestigious to question.

And the time we stopped at two references. It felt efficient. But now, with hindsight, I can’t help but ask: what didn’t we see?

I think about the one candidate I didn’t feel quite right about—but didn’t want to seem “overly suspicious.”

More than anything, I think about how often safer recruitment is quietly treated as HR’s job. In reality, it belongs to all of us—especially to those with the power to decide who walks into our schools.

As a DSL, I know that one poorly vetted hire can undo years of trust built with students and families. That’s why hiring isn’t just the first HR task. It’s the first safeguarding decision.

Practical Questions We Need to Ask (But Often Don’t)

  • Have we actually spoken to the person who worked most closely with the candidate?
  • Are we accepting clearances from countries that don’t share information across borders?
  • Have we asked about safeguarding concerns—not just performance reviews?
  • Have we reviewed the candidate’s relational conduct with both students and adults?
  • Are there any patterns of emotional manipulation, boundary-pushing, or staff conflict that raise concern?
  • Is our interview panel trained to detect grooming behaviors masked as charisma?

Most importantly: Are we willing to pause the process when something doesn’t feel right? Because when instinct is paired with professional judgment, it becomes valid evidence—not just a gut feeling.

A Call to Senior Leaders, HR Teams, and Governors

If you’re on a hiring panel, you are part of the safeguarding team—whether or not you carry the DSL title.

Ask the hard questions. Push for the third reference. Slow down when the pressure says move fast. Question the “but they’re from a good school” mindset.

And never forget: a charming interview does not equal a safe adult.

It’s easy to overlook red flags when time is tight. It’s tempting to shift responsibility elsewhere. But in safeguarding, what’s easy is rarely what’s safe.

We owe our students more than good teachers. We owe them safe ones.

And “safe” doesn’t just mean free of criminal history. A safe teacher is someone who will never shame a child for struggling. Someone who won’t belittle, mock, or emotionally manipulate a student—no matter how talented they are at teaching.

Harm doesn’t always show up in obvious ways. Sometimes, it’s subtle—a comment meant as a joke, a tone that cuts too deep. Sometimes, it hides behind charm, or behind standards that feel just a little too high. And sometimes, it goes unnoticed—tucked into the corners of decisions made too quickly.

Emotional safety matters just as much as physical safety—and that starts with hiring adults who are not just competent, but compassionate. Not just experienced, but ethical. Not just impressive on paper, but principled in practice.

So the next time we sit at a hiring table, let’s remember: The decision we make isn’t just about filling a timetable. It’s about protecting our community.

In the end, hiring is not just operational. It is ethical. It is relational.

And in international schools—where mobility is high and memory is short— hiring is foundational.

Teaching to be an Upstander: Education and Bullying

Many of the competencies and values we aim to develop through education are cognitive and technical: conceptual understanding, skills, knowledge and the transfer of knowledge, innovation and creativity, criticality, and reflection. The radical transformation of the generation and distribution of knowledge by artificial intelligence is reshaping the importance and form of some of these facets of learning.

Then there are the more intrapersonal, ethical, and social aspects of an education: social and emotional learning, wellbeing, building self-confidence, civic responsibility, skills, and approaches to being linked to the way we live in society and in our environment. Anxiety, mental illness, difficulties navigating childhood and adolescence in a fast-moving and fast-changing world are more and more prevalent and shape the expectations placed on educators today much more than 100 years ago. It’s good that we understand that vital interrelationship between learning and emotions today, for this means that relationships with students tend to be curated more subtly, encouragingly, sensitively, and mindfully than they were in the cold Dickensian classroom of the 19th Century where humiliation, corporal punishment, and sarcasm reigned freely. Research in cognition shows us fairly clearly that these inhibit learning, they do not encourage it. 

One of the major challenges facing educators is bullying. Students are bullied in and out of school in a number of ways, and more and more online. Often bullying takes place in “friend” groups and is characterised by a persistent mocking or humiliation, or physical torment, of another person in front of a group. It is the persistence, accompanied by an imbalance of power, that characterises bullying.

When a child is constantly bullied by another student, going to school becomes a traumatic experience. The learning in the classroom is far from the main preoccupation, which is keeping safe and away from the bully. Parents will feel exasperated when their children come home with horror stories and it seems as if the school is doing nothing about it. From a disciplinarian point of view, such scenarios can be complex to unpack, for the bully might feel bullied themselves, and narratives around what is happening are difficult to unpack, the truth not easy to determine, especially since it requires evidence that may not be at hand.

This much said, it has to be taken seriously, and schools have to do what they can to tackle bullying, to stamp it out, and to ensure that children grow up free from such major distress. How can this be done?

There’s no easy answer. Responses range from positive discipline and restorative practices to more traditional and stricter, less collaborative approaches. In truth, it’s a long and arduous journey to change the dynamic in a relationship between students where bullying is occurring, to make it stop, and to reinstate confidence in the bullied child.

One thing that is vitally important to recognise and encourage is the power of the upstander, and to develop the strength to overcome the fear of the bystander. One of the most pernicious aspects of bullying is that when it happens people turn a blind eye to it, often out of fear or apathy. The bullying carries on in broad daylight in front of others, and nothing is done to stop it. At some point, someone has to have the courage to step in and say “enough”, “stop”. Needless to say, this is much easier said than done. 

It’s an important message to send out to students in assemblies, discussions, and when handling individual cases: to involve the group and not just two individuals, and to remind everybody that as a community we are no stronger than the weakest link in the chain; that if we all remain silent while someone is being persecuted, when we are persecuted, no one will stand up for us (Martin Niemöller’s famous poem comes to mind, as does the quote by the British philosopher Edmund Burke about evil proliferating because good men do nothing).

As adults, the place to start is with ourselves, for no moral education can be carried by rhetoric alone; it has to be modelled and delivered through example. Too many cases of bullying exist in the adult world—through mobbing, email assaults, unkind words—especially when there is an imbalance of power, and it is a person who is organisationally more powerful than another who is doing it. In how many cases does the group (department, team, or boardroom) simply keep quiet, out of fear, when this is happening?

If you find yourself in an environment where someone else is being humiliated, downtrodden, maligned or threatened, don’t be afraid to speak up. This gives enormous strength to the person being attacked and makes the persecutor think twice. So often, all it takes is for one or two people to stand up for the behaviour to cease, but who will be the person who manages to break the silence and step forward?

Teaching these profound leadership moments is less about lessons and concepts and much more about a culture where kindness is venerated and the practice of calling in and being an upstander has become normalised. It takes years and, if truth be told, few institutions will truly manage to get there, for human beings can be cruel by nature and culture is morphed by all sorts of hidden and surreptitious, changing forces. But if we keep our eye out for it, if we are serious about combatting bullying and treat signs of it as every bit as important, if not more so, than other signs of learning, the first step will be taken.

Leaders have to emphasise the message that we will not tolerate certain types of behaviour, model vulnerability so that there is enough freedom in the community for others to stand up and speak, even against the leaders themselves. That is the open society as the great philosopher Karl Popper called it—a space where those in power allow themselves to be criticised, refuse to take it personally, and never respond with vindictiveness or vengeance. This models that people in power know how to step back and allow others to express themselves.

Let us keep educating for the moral courage to call others in, to step up, to help each other out. All the talk of 21st Century learning in the world won’t mean much if the wellbeing and psychological safety needed to flourish is not taken care of first.

From Performance to Presence: Reframing the Trap of Performative Leadership

There’s a TikTok trend going around called “the performative man”—a satirical take on guys who do the bare minimum but make it look like maximum effort. He’s flipping a pancake like it’s a CrossFit workout. He answers one email and immediately announces it’s time for a break. He slams cabinet doors with dramatic flair, sighs like he’s solving world peace, narrates every move loudly, and enters rooms with an air of exhausted importance—so everyone knows he must be doing something significant.

It’s hilarious. It’s ridiculous. And it’s… painfully familiar.

It made me realize that somewhere in every organization—there’s a version of that performative guy.

And maybe, at one point—when I was just starting out as a teacher, then a middle leader, and later as a senior leader—every time I stepped into something new, especially in those early months, that version was me. Maybe it’s all of us, at some point.

  • The teacher who performs certainty to hide fear.
  • The leader who overcompensates because they’re new, or unheard, or exhausted.
  • The woman told to “sit at the table” but now wonders if she’s mimicking a leadership model she never even liked.

When Performance Replaces Presence

Performative leadership is what happens when we start acting out the role instead of living the responsibility.

It often looks like:

  • Always having an answer (even when you don’t)
  • Replying to emails at midnight to prove commitment
  • Jumping into every conversation just to be seen
  • Leading meetings as monologues, not dialogues
  • Protecting your image more than your integrity

The hardest part? It rarely comes from arrogance.  It usually comes from fear. Or self-doubt. Or the overwhelming pressure to prove ourselves in roles we genuinely care about.

Let’s be real—leadership is vulnerable. We enter a new role and instantly feel the need to be: liked, respected, credible, and visible.

So, we perform. We become overly polished, overly busy, overly certain—because we’re trying to outrun the voice that whispers: “Am I enough for this?”

But the irony is: the more we perform, the further we drift from trust—the very thing we’re trying to build.

Performative leadership slowly chips away at authenticity. It trains people to follow your persona, not your principles. It breeds compliance, not commitment.

It creates distance—because no one can connect with the version of you that’s always right, always “on,” and never unsure.

Tips & Reframes: Moving from Performance to Presence

1. Notice your signals: When you find yourself saying things like: “We’ve always done it this way,” “Just trust me,” or even silence that masks discomfort—pause.

Ask yourself: Am I leading… or protecting something?

2. Watch your mirrors: Who do you shrink around? Who do you perform for? These instinctive reactions often reveal internalized fears or survival scripts from past environments.

3. Reclaim your authenticity: It’s okay to say: “I don’t know yet.” “Let’s think about that together.” “You tell me—what do you need?”

You’re not losing authority. You’re building trust.

4. Call in, not out: When you notice performative patterns in others, don’t shame. Invite.

Ask: “Is this what we actually value here?” Create space for real talk, realignment, and shared vulnerability.

Reframe: Presence Over Performance

Leadership isn’t about being the most impressive person in the room. It’s about being the safest one to stand next to.

And that often looks like:

  • Saying “I don’t know”—and meaning it
  • Letting others lead meetings you’re used to owning
  • Prioritizing reflection over reaction
  • Normalizing questions, doubts, and slow starts
  • Protecting your boundaries, not just your reputation
  • Speaking last, not first
  • Asking “What do you need?” instead of “How do I fix this?”

Practice: How to Start (Without Needing to Be Perfect)

1.Name the pattern: When you feel yourself shifting into “polish mode”—pause. Ask: Am I here to serve, or impress?

2.Choose one space to stay messy: A team meeting. A student chat. A parent call. Let go of the need to have it all together—just be present.

3.Build one relationship where you can be fully yourself: Find someone who sees the real you—and reminds you that’s enough.

4.Let your team breathe: Permission is powerful. Normalize uncertainty. Invite feedback. Celebrate rest.

5.Be patient with yourself : This isn’t a one-time fix. It’s a muscle. You build it slowly—through daily reps of showing up real.


If you recognize yourself here, know that you’re not broken. You’re not failing either. You’re probably just trying really hard— to care, belong,and lead well.

But what if this week you could try to let go a little?

Speak softer. Think longer. Show up real, unsure—but deeply grounded.

Because that version of you? That may be the leader your school needs most.

This post is your permission. 

To feel the tension.

To stay when it’s hard.

To lead with integrity.

To change your mind.

To drop the act.

To begin again.

You can love the school, the team, the mission…. And still long for a kind of leadership that feels more like home.

And maybe… just maybe… that’s the beginning of something better.

How can AI make teachers more human in the classroom?

Everywhere I go lately, there’s a whisper in the background of education: Will AI replace teachers?

I hear it in staff rooms, at conferences, and even in conversations with parents. It’s a question that holds both fear and fascination. But each time, I find myself coming back to a different angle. Because maybe the real question isn’t about replacement at all. Maybe it’s about rebalancing.

What if AI could actually make teachers more human in the classroom?


Why did we choose to become educators?

Most of us didn’t step into teaching because we dreamed of filling out spreadsheets or marking papers at midnight. We entered education because we believe in people—because we know that learning is built on relationships.

It’s in the quiet moment when a student finally feels safe enough to speak. It’s in the spark in their eyes when something “clicks.” It’s in the laughter, the stories, and the trust we build day after day.

Those are the things that stay with students years after they’ve forgotten the details of a math formula or a history date. Those are the things no algorithm can replicate.

And yet, too often, teachers are buried under the noise of the job: the marking pile that never shrinks, the lesson prep that eats up weekends, the data entry that stretches long into the night. All of that steals away the time and energy we want to pour into the human side of teaching.


Where does AI fit ?

Some see AI as a threat, others as the future. The truth may be less about either/or and more about how we align its strengths with what matters most in education.

AI is powerful—it can draft lesson scaffolds, generate feedback at scale, analyze patterns in student data that we might otherwise miss, and even bridge language barriers in multicultural classrooms. In the right hands, it can open possibilities that were once unimaginable.

But here’s the key: AI is at its best not when it replaces teachers, but when it amplifies them. It can clear the clutter so that the teacher’s most important work—relationships, presence, empathy—comes through louder than ever.


What shifts do we need to make?

This is the real shift we need to embrace in education: moving from the fear of replacement to the power of rebalancing.

When we stop asking “Will AI replace us?” and start asking “How can AI give us back time to be fully human?” we change the whole conversation.

If schools integrate AI thoughtfully, we could reclaim something we’ve been losing for years in education: meaningful time. Not just time shaved off our workload, but time that lets us pause, notice, and connect. Time to lean into the conversations that help students feel seen. Time to mentor, to listen, to bring the holistic dimensions of growth—cultural, academic, physical, emotional, social—back to the center of what we do.


Four ways to start that shift

  1. Automate the routine: Use AI for what it does best: the repetitive and the time-consuming. Scheduling, drafting rubrics, generating baseline lesson resources. It’s not about perfection—it’s about removing the drain.
  2. Protect the relational: Make an intentional choice to invest the time saved into relationships. That might mean slowing down for a conversation, designing deeper discussions, or checking in with a student who’s been quiet.
  3. Reframe professional growth: When training staff on AI, pair every technical skill with a human one. For example: show how AI can generate a draft lesson, then ask, “How will you use the time saved to spark deeper inquiry or connect with students more personally?”; Add reflection prompts in evaluations like: “How did AI reduce your workload this term, and how did you reinvest that time into relationships or student growth?”; Leaders can model this shift by sharing how they themselves use AI for admin, then spend the reclaimed time in coaching or mentoring. These subtle moves remind teachers—and systems—that AI is not the goal. The human connection is.
  4. Lead with clarity: Schools should be explicit about where AI belongs and where it doesn’t. Clarity reassures staff, parents, and students that the goal isn’t replacement, but balance.

At its best, AI won’t make classrooms less human—it will make them more human. But that depends on how we choose to use it. The real challenge for us, as educators and leaders, is to decide: Will we let AI crowd our work with more efficiency, or will we use it as an opening to reclaim what matters most—our presence, our empathy, our relationships?

Because in the end, the most powerful learning still happens in the space between people. So I leave you with this: where in your teaching or leadership could AI return the gift of time—for you to be more present, more human?

Why Schools Need a Shared Understanding of High-Quality Learning

It’s the start of the school year. Pencils are sharpened, classrooms prepped, staff meetings underway. You might have even rehearsed your Day 1 welcome talk in the mirror.

But under the energy of a fresh start is a question many educators carry quietly: “What exactly are we building toward this year—together?”

Not in the abstract language of mission posters, but in the real, daily experience of student learning.

We want students to thrive—to think deeply, grow independently, and feel safe enough to take risks. But let’s be honest: most schools operate with unspoken, misaligned, or overly abstract ideas of “high-quality learning.” And in a profession already stretched thin, that kind of ambiguity doesn’t just confuse teachers—it dilutes everything we’re trying to build for students.

This isn’t just a curriculum issue. It’s a culture issue.


In these first weeks of school, conversations about “instructional excellence,” “outcomes,” or “raising expectations” will flood CPD rooms. Leaders will begin rounds of instructional supervision and evaluation and quality assurance cycles hoping to spark growth.

But here’s the challenge: You can’t coach what you haven’t defined. You can’t evaluate what isn’t shared. And you can’t build alignment if everyone’s chasing a different ideal.

Without a shared understanding of high-quality learning, feedback becomes vague, supervision feels performative, and evaluation becomes about compliance, not growth.

I’ve seen it firsthand in schools around the world—as both a leader and an accreditation visitor.


What It Looks Like in Real Life:
  • A student says, “I love English because I know exactly how to improve.” Then shrugs in another class, “There, I just try to guess what the teacher wants.”
  • A teacher shares, “I want feedback, but every observer seems to look for something different.”
  • A house tutor, deeply invested in student well-being, feels disconnected from conversations about “learning,” despite being the first adult students turn to when learning feels hard.

These aren’t isolated moments. They’re symptoms of a shared definition gap—between what we hope learning is and what we’ve actually defined, modeled, and communicated together.


In a previous school visit, I asked a mixed group of staff: “How would you describe high-quality learning at your school?”

Nine different responses.

From “student engagement” to “depth over breadth” to “data-driven instruction” and “real-world connections”—all well-intentioned, but wildly varied.

And that’s the problem. When leaders and teachers operate with different mental models, we don’t just risk inconsistent practice—we risk eroding trust.


Instructional leadership isn’t just about walkthroughs and marking policies. It starts with pedagogical clarity.

When a community co-constructs a definition of high-quality learning, we:

  • Send consistent signals to students about what matters
  • Empower teachers to calibrate expectations without losing creativity
  • Create a compass for decision-making—across curriculum, feedback, supervision, reporting, and even student voice

It also gives us language that moves beyond just assessment:

What makes this lesson worth remembering ten years from now?

How does it feel to be known, challenged, and supported in your classroom?

These aren’t fluff questions. They’re the heartbeat of learning culture. And they often get lost when we’re too busy chasing scores.


One of the biggest leadership myths?

“We can’t move forward until everyone agrees.”

But clarity doesn’t require consensus. It requires courage. You need a shared starting point, not 100% buy-in.

Here’s what that looks like in practice:

  • Start with story, not spreadsheets Ask teachers: “When have you felt most proud of your students’ learning?” Then mine that moment for what mattered.
  • Anchor in the mission If your mission says “global citizens,” ask: What evidence of that shows up in our lessons? Is it visible to students?
  • Frame it as culture, not control A shared definition isn’t a tool for top-down enforcement. It’s a living language that helps everyone—new staff, EAL teachers, learning assistants—row in the same direction.

I’ve learned this the hard way. Buy-in doesn’t happen after a PowerPoint. It happens when people feel the why in their gut, and see the how in action.


Here’s what I’ve seen in schools that build (not borrow) their learning definition:

  • Using student work and video clips as provocations
  • Making explicit links to the school mission and learner profile
  • Aligning the definition with supervision rubrics and coaching tools
  • Inviting students into the definition process
  • Revisiting the definition annually: “Does this still reflect who we’re becoming?”

Once this shared clarity exists, schools begin to shift:

  • Observations become reflective, not evaluative
  • Departments meet to talk learning, not just logistics
  • Peer walkthroughs emerge organically
  • Parents better understand reports because the school has a clear way to describe learning
  • Students recognize their own growth—not just through marks, but through meaning

What Accreditation Got Right

When I first encountered accreditation criteria asking for a definition of high-quality learning, I found it… prescriptive.

Now, I see it as protective.

Accreditation teams aren’t trying to lock us into a model. They’re asking: “Do your people know what great learning looks like here?”

Because clarity isn’t bureaucracy—it’s care.

It protects teachers from arbitrary expectations; it protects students from inconsistent experiences; and it protects leaders from drifting into strategy without purpose or meaning.


When schools anchor supervision in a shared definition of learning:

  • Feedback becomes actionable (“Let’s look at how this connects to our learning principles.”)
  • Growth becomes visible (“Here’s how your lesson supported learner agency.”)
  • Student experience improves—because the adults are aligned.

Instructional supervision, student agency, inclusion practices—they all benefit from clarity.

And that clarity begins with a simple question:

“What does high-quality learning look and feel like in our school?”


Where to Begin: Define, Don’t Dictate

You don’t need the perfect phrase. You need a conversation that matters.

Start here:

  • Ask 3–5 teachers: What does great learning look like in your classroom?
  • Ask a student after class: What do you think your teacher wanted you to learn today—and how did you know?
  • Reflect on your mission: Is it alive in how you talk about teaching?

Start where you are. Invite stories. Co-create meaning. Build small rituals that reinforce big ideas.

Because in the end, a school’s definition of high-quality learning shouldn’t live on a poster.

It should live in your classrooms. In your conversations. In your coaching, reporting, planning, and celebrations.


So as we step into a new school year—with new faces, new goals, and perhaps a few uncertainties—let’s remember this:

You don’t need perfect consensus. You need shared clarity.

Because if there’s one truth that carries across supervision, strategy, and student experience, it’s this: Clarity beats complexity. Every time. And when that clarity is co-created, lived, and felt—it doesn’t just change practice. It transforms culture.

Toxicity in the Workplace

The metaphor “toxic” to describe work culture came about in the late 1980s in a leadership guide characterising toxic workplaces as ridden with conflict, “obscure goals and values, aggressive communication and scenarios in which staff are used like material resources.” (Christian, 2023

Since then, the term has gained currency and is used frequently to describe the workplace and, sometimes, even people.

It’s not very difficult to see what you might call a toxic culture: the weight of ego and testosterone is childishly heavy, agendas are personal; there’s usually a general cynicism about the mission, mainly through some form of blaming others for not living up to it; exchanges are accusatory; people are palpably afraid; there is no trust and back-biting is a major hobby. There are, in fact, elements of a so-called toxic culture that are superficially pleasing to our sense of schadenfreude and drama: spreading rumors, gossip, and scapegoating brings with it a rush of mischievous dopamine. This draws on the base instincts that fuel human passions and can be —forgive the pun—intoxicating. In his 2011 bestseller Sapiens,  Yuval Harari ventures that humans love rumours and gossip because this goes back to an archaic and tribal need to categorise people and guess their potential threat quotient: perhaps unconsciously we are drawn to create narratives around others so as to surmise their  inner motivations, to “read” and second guess them as it were. The point is that it’s easy to drift into this type of behaviour.

Email gives a distinctly post 1980s twist to toxicity, especially if there is a norm of ganging up on people or humiliating them with all on copy. As we still live in a logocentric world, where the written word has some gravity, this can be weaponised. I’ve written about this previously, pointing out that  one is far less likely to see this level of virulence in face to face conversations. It’s no doubt easier to write something nasty to someone than to say it to their face! This is why rituals of face to face meetings to deal with problems are always better than protracted email battles.

If these unsavoury habits become anchored and are given oxygen, they can influence others’ behaviour, and therefore the culture of the group or workplace, strongly. It is not uncommon in such scenarios to see moderates stand on the sidelines while the negativity intensifies.  William Butler Yeats wrote in his apocalyptic 100-year old poem “The Second Coming” that “the best lack all conviction while the worst are full of passionate intensity.” Indeed, without a concerted leadership effort (for it is usually leaders who are seen as responsible for the culture),  the diffusion of behaviour might well be dragged down by the energy of resentment, which is bullish enough to silence those not looking for conflict.

So the question must be, how do we shift a culture from toxic to healthy? How do we break away from something that is powerful and seated in our collective survival instinct and seems to spread like wildfire in communities?

Trying to reform a culture of this sort is obviously very difficult; it requires a type of spiritual conversion on the part of several individuals collectively, or some sort of watershed moment or even crisis to end the negativity and start anew. The work must be intentional and sincere, far reaching and systematic.

The great (but also contradictory) German philosopher Nietzsche wrote at length about the mundane yet inexorable force of resentment; its surprising potency and ubiquity. For him, one needs to rise above it in an act of self overcoming (Selbstüberwindung – what a splendid word!).

In the world of life coaching, as the brilliant, if not quixotic, American psychologist Milton Erickson, arguably the father of neurolinguistic programming, once said, “People are okay, People have real resources, Every person has a positive intention, People do their best, and change is inevitable.” (Atkinson, 2019). These are Erickson’s five principles.

I would venture that these five principles or assumptions make up the obligatory philosophical premise needed to heal a culture: not to judge other people or revel in blame, not to become defensive, and certainly not to stoop to the level of whatever is being said against you. To wipe the slate clean, you must imagine that the person in front of you – or behind your back – actually  has good intentions and is, ontologically, a good person and they need to know that you think that. Behaviours are often expressions of hurt or need from individuals, resentment is simply the voice of frustration, and if we manage to look at these expressions magnanimously, even if they are directed against us, it will help us offer solutions instead of erect barriers. 

The question of perspective is by no means trivial: if the leader sees toxicity everywhere, is there a chance that she/he/them is actually contributing to the toxicity? Are the people who complain about a culture being toxic completely free of toxicity themselves? The Pre-Socratic philosopher Protagoras took this idea quite far when he said that”Man is the measure of all things”, meaning that we tend to see the world for what we are. So looking at things with a positive spirit, especially as a leader,is particularly important as we might actually  be creating the reality we think we see by projecting our own issues onto it. Better to see the glass half full.

At this point it’s worth noting that “toxic” is not actually a very helpful term, it’s a type of blanket description and lacks nuance. More granular descriptions of work culture outline strong or weak cultures in the first instance (strong meaning that there are ingrained rituals in behavior, weak meaning that there are few or none). From there, we have mission-aligned cultures and those that are misaligned, meaning that there are cultures where behaviours echo the mission of the establishment and others where we say one thing but do another.

Contemporary analyses of leadership understand that culture is hugely important, for it is the culture that determines the behaviour and behaviour that determines what actually happens on the ground. To use an overquoted trope by Peter Drucker, “culture eats strategy for breakfast” (it’s the breakfast part I like the most in that quote!). It is not the words that count but the behaviours, and in particular those behaviours that take place when no one is looking, for that is when we are at our most vulnerable and truthful, away from the oftentimes sanitised veneer of public discourse. Creating a mission-aligned, strong culture requires a real effort: community members have to commit to contributing to the common good and have to have established a moral code where respect, kindness, open listening, understanding, and assuming good intentions are venerated, respected and practiced.

Influencing a mission-aligned culture is one thing, the other is creating a strong culture. This usually means creating a set of rituals to strengthen the culture and create habits that are mission-aligned and change behaviours.

To give a simple example from the Harvard Business School, in 2006, CEO Alan Mulally joined Ford with a “$12.7 billion loss” and “a culture of distrust and secrecy. Fearing blame or punishment, executives hid problems in their divisions until they turned into crises.”

In his weekly leadership meetings, Mulally publicly encouraged those reports who presented problems they were having. Rather than create a culture of fear and accusation, he modelled appreciation for transparency and sharing. Ford’s stock price rose massively because of this. (Coleman, 2025). It was by changing the ritual of the weekly meetings and creating new habits of transparency and vulnerability that Mulally shifted the culture and, eventually, the business result.

To give a personal example, I always start my leadership meetings with a thinking routine on leadership, and make sure that it’s someone different from the team leading it each time, to remind ourselves why we are here, and to model distributed leadership. The result has been the whole team owning the strategic plan and the organisation’s challenges, rather than a culture where the CEO thinks he or she or they are doing it all by themselves (and wants to take all the credit). The result has been a strategic plan that is spread across the whole organisation and is owned collectively. That comes from rituals to strengthen the culture. One other thing I always do is when I see someone presenting to the group and people are on their emails, I stop the presentation and tell them to fold their laptops, to reinforce a culture of respect and listening. The result? More engagement and recall of what is being said and better discussions. If you are in meetings where no one is listening to presentations, please, do something about it, it’s important! 

If you are caught up in a strongly mission- misaligned culture, or a weak institutional culture, step away from simply branding it as “toxic”; exercise the power you have to stay focused on the higher values of the organisation and look for rituals that undo negativity and fear to create a more fluid, regenerative force. This is particularly important in places of learning where the focus should always be on self-actualisation and growth. By giving people the benefit of the doubt, forgiving acts of resentment and not partaking in undesirable behaviours while, on the contrary, focussing on and bringing attention to those behaviours we wish to see flourish, the culture will be more mission-aligned, and once rituals have been put in place to do this systematically, it will also be stronger. 

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